{"id":10209,"date":"2026-05-27T08:12:08","date_gmt":"2026-05-27T12:12:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hra.org\/?p=10209"},"modified":"2026-05-27T08:12:08","modified_gmt":"2026-05-27T12:12:08","slug":"what-our-seniors-wish-they-had-known","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hra.org\/what-our-seniors-wish-they-had-known\/","title":{"rendered":"What Our Seniors Wish They Had Known"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Elizabeth Cavallari, Director of College Counseling<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_10210\" style=\"width: 410px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10210\" class=\"wp-image-10210 size-fusion-400\" src=\"https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Senior-Parade-2026_Smile-and-Wave-400x320.jpg\" alt=\"HRA senior during the 2026 Senior Parade\" width=\"400\" height=\"320\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Senior-Parade-2026_Smile-and-Wave-200x160.jpg 200w, https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Senior-Parade-2026_Smile-and-Wave-300x240.jpg 300w, https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Senior-Parade-2026_Smile-and-Wave-400x320.jpg 400w, https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Senior-Parade-2026_Smile-and-Wave-600x480.jpg 600w, https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Senior-Parade-2026_Smile-and-Wave-768x614.jpg 768w, https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Senior-Parade-2026_Smile-and-Wave-800x640.jpg 800w, https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Senior-Parade-2026_Smile-and-Wave-1024x819.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Senior-Parade-2026_Smile-and-Wave-1200x960.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Senior-Parade-2026_Smile-and-Wave-1536x1229.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-10210\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The college-bound seniors of the Class of 2026 share their words of wisdom for younger students<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/hra.org\/class-of-2026-senior-parade-lasting-connection-to-hra\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Senior Release<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, Chris Hailey, Associate Director of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/hra.org\/college-counseling\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">College Counseling<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and I met individually with each member of the senior class. We wanted to hear their reflections on their experience with college counseling and talk through each student\u2019s application process. We asked about their excitement and nervousness surrounding graduation and college. We walked through their decision-making process, asked for feedback on our office, and reminded them that we will always be part of their <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/hra.org\/havent-we-heard-this-before\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">support system<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As I reviewed my notes from those meetings, two questions stood out: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIs there anything you wish you had known earlier in the process?\u201d and \u201cWhat advice would you give younger students?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While every student\u2019s experience was different, several themes came up again and again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The most common advice? Start earlier and don\u2019t procrastinate. Multiple students emphasized this point:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cDo things earlier.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cDon\u2019t procrastinate!\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cDon\u2019t wait until the last minute.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWork on it over the summer.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIt feels good not to leave everything until the last minute.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Students also talked about staying engaged and organized throughout the process:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cDo it when you get the email.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cRead the emails.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cTake it seriously. It sneaks up on you.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another major theme was <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/hra.org\/college-admissions-decisions-waiting\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">managing stress<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and perspective:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cChill out.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cDon\u2019t stress. It can feel overwhelming. Focus on the positives.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cThe task seems harder than it actually is.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And perhaps most importantly, seniors encouraged younger students to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/hra.org\/college-counseling-news-achievement-culture\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">focus less on prestige and more on fit<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cPrestige is relative. Choose what\u2019s best for you.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cPick the place where YOU are going to be successful.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBe open to suggestions.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I think anyone can read this list and find something that resonates. But as I think about <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/issuu.com\/hamptonroadsacademy\/docs\/navigator_impact_magazine_winter_2026\/8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">our juniors<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, our soon-to-be seniors, I hope they, and their families, read it even more closely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And then remember that the College Counseling Office is here to help.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We expect every rising senior to meet with us at least <\/span><em><strong>twice<\/strong><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> over the summer to continue the momentum we built during the school year. We do not want students to procrastinate. We want them to work steadily over the summer so they can begin senior year feeling confident, prepared, and ahead of the process.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And we will meet students where they are, whether at HRA, in a coffee shop, or on Zoom. We will partner with them throughout the summer as they complete essays, finalize activities lists, and refine college lists.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is an exciting season! Our goal is not simply to help students get into college, but to help them find the place where they will thrive.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Elizabeth Cavallari, Director of College Counseling &nbsp; Before Senior Release, Chris Hailey, Associate Director of College Counseling, and I met [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":10210,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,50,63],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10209","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-college-counseling","category-home","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10209","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10209"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10209\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10212,"href":"https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10209\/revisions\/10212"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10210"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10209"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10209"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hra.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10209"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}